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title: "Harshita Singh on Instagram: Honest Birth Experience"
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# Harshita Singh on Instagram: Honest Birth Experience

Harshita Singh on Instagram: &quot;I asked every mom I knew before my first birth. I got &#x201c;period pain times a thousand&#x201d; and &#x201c;just get the epidural.&#x201d;
I get it. Pain is hard to describe. Maybe they didn&#x2019;t want to scare me.

But I needed a mental map. Going in blind wasn&#x2019;t peace &#x2014; it was anxiety with a blindfold on.

So here&#x2019;s the honest version. No softening. I&#x2019;ve done this twice &#x2014; once with an epidural, once without. Both vaginal. Both real. Both unique in their own right.

Part 2 is where I share the exact tools that got me through it. The breathing, the visualisation, the TENS machine, the mindset shifts. Everything.

Comment PART 2 below so I know to drop it fast. &#x1f90d;
And follow so you don&#x2019;t miss it when it drops :)

#laborpain #whatcontractionsfeellike #firsttimemom #honestbirth #laboranddelivery birthprep inducedlabor realmotherhood pregnancytips newmom mumtobe ukmum londonmum theInBetween&quot; — 2,784 likes, 308 comments - inbetweenwithharshita on May 14, 2026: &quot;I asked every mom I knew before my first birth. I got &#x201c;period pain times a thousand&#x201d; and &#x201c;just get the epidural.&#x201d;
I get it. Pain is hard to describe. Maybe they didn&#x2019;t want to scare me.

But I needed a mental map. Going in blind wasn&#x2019;t peace &#x2014; it was anxiety with a blindfold on.

So here&#x2019;s the honest version. No softening. I&#x2019;ve done this twice &#x2014; once with an epidural, once without. Both vaginal. Both real. Both unique in their own right.

Part 2 is where I share the exact tools that got me through it. The breathing, the visualisation, the TENS machine, the mindset shifts. Everything.

Comment PART 2 below so I know to drop it fast. &#x1f90d;
And follow so you don&#x2019;t miss it when it drops :)

#laborpain #whatcontractionsfeellike #firsttimemom #honestbirth #laboranddelivery birthprep inducedlabor realmotherhood pregnancytips newmom mumtobe ukmum londonmum theInBetween&quot;.  — https://www.instagram.com/p/DYUFMjDOZzQ/
